Collaborative Family Law Victoria
Separation and divorce don’t have to lead to a costly, adversarial court battle. Collaborative Family Law offers a respectful, structured approach that puts communication and cooperation first. As a Collaborative Family Lawyer in Victoria, I help clients resolve family matters through open dialogue and mutual agreement—without going to court.
In this process, both spouses retain lawyers trained in collaborative practice and sign a Participation Agreement committing to transparency and respectful communication. If an agreement can’t be reached, new lawyers must be retained for any future litigation—encouraging everyone to stay committed to resolution.
If you’re seeking a peaceful and effective way to move forward, I can help you decide if Collaborative Family Law or mediation is the best fit for your situation.
What is Collaborative Family Law?
Collaborative Family Law is a voluntary, non-adversarial legal process designed to help separating couples reach agreements through open dialogue and cooperation. With the support of trained professionals—including lawyers, financial specialists, and family coaches when needed—the focus remains on creating solutions that work for both parties and their children.
Benefits of Collaborative Family Law
- Avoids Court
Keeps you out of the courtroom and in control of your outcomes.
- Cost-Effective
Often less expensive than litigation.
- Confidential
The process is private and discreet.
- Respectful Communication
Encourages honesty and mutual respect.
- Respectful Family-Focused
Supports co-parenting and long-term cooperation when appropriate.
Learn More About Collaborative Family Law
For additional information and resources, I encourage you to visit the Collaborative Family Law Group BC website. You’ll find helpful guidance on how the process works, who’s involved, and whether it’s right for you and your family.
Frequently Asked Questions About Collaborative Family Law Victoria
What makes collaborative law different from mediation?
While both are cooperative processes, collaborative law includes legal representation for both parties throughout. Each party has a lawyer advocating for their needs within a respectful, cooperative framework.
What is a Participation Agreement?
This is a contract signed by both parties and their lawyers committing to full transparency and cooperative negotiation. It also states that if the collaborative process fails, both parties must find new legal counsel for court.
Is collaborative law legally binding?
Yes. Once an agreement is reached, your collaborative lawyers will draft a legally binding separation agreement or consent order, which can be filed with the court if necessary.
Can we still use other professionals in the process?
Absolutely. Depending on your situation, the process may involve neutral financial advisors, child specialists, or divorce coaches to help with parenting plans and emotional support.
What happens if we can't reach an agreement?
If resolution cannot be reached, both parties must hire new lawyers to proceed through the court system. This requirement ensures everyone is committed to working collaboratively.
Client Success Stories
- Judith St. denis
Deborah Todd has been my lawyer since at least 2001 she was recommended to me by an acquaintance whom also is a lawyer and the fact that she was recommended by one of her peers meant a lot to me. Going through a divorce for the most part can be a very emotional traumatic experience and in my case I not only needed an excellent lawyer I needed one whom understands business corporations, trusts and financial accounting. Deborah not only understands but is up to date on the case law related to divorce where business and children are involved. I have felt fully supported by Deborah and her team with her ability to mediate and assist in sorting out complicated situations she is exemplary.
June 5, 2017Cynthia ReidDebbie has been my family lawyer for over 25 years. She is amazing. Her compassionate no-nonsense style and knowledge gives you the confidence to take charge of your situation. This is beneficial at the mediation table. She is simply the best family law lawyer in Victoria. Highly recommend.
July 18, 2017Philippe HahnDeborah Todd and team are highly skilled in family law. They take a practical, no-nonsense approach that is in the best interest of their clients. We highly recommend Deborah Todd.
April 10, 2018 - Maria M.
Strength, Knowledge, Perseverance and Personal Commitment! It is my pleasure to recommend this outstanding professional. I have known Deborah Todd for over 10 years and I find her to be of the most dedicated, compassionate Lawyer I have ever met. Deborah is a warm and considerate individual, she is down to Earth and has a calm demeanor that makes people feel that not only are they heard but also have the right Anchor on their side. Deborah is an extremely talented Attorney who cares a great deal about her clients, Deborah is the kind of Lawyer who never gives up, she will spend hours working including weekends to ensure the best results for her clients. Her strong sense of organization helps her remain calm in and out of the Courtroom which is appreciated by clients. She has won a large majority of her cases, mainly because she is extremely thorough in her due diligence. I would recommend her to my friends and family.
June 12, 2017Shirley CurtisDeborah Todd has been my lawyer for many years and has always dealt with me in a professional, courteous manner. Initially Deborah set up wills for my husband and me, and now our children have gone to Deborah to have their wills done as well. Recently Deborah helped me through the process of being an Executrix for two estates. Both of these estates were handled with understanding, timeliness, and professionalism. I am a very satisfied client.
June 7, 2017Brad YarmieDeborah Todd and her excellent staff got me through my divorce from an extremely uncooperative and difficult partner with my best interest in mind, first and foremost! Emails were answered quickly, and I was never left hanging. She is very easy to talk to; I felt she was actually listening and understanding what I was saying. She provided the calm during the hurricane in my life. Thanks again for your help.
June 5, 2017 - Jean Bigelow
My experience with Deborah Todd has been incredibly positive. Deborah knows her stuff and is easy to work with. She is sensitive to my needs and keeps things going smoothly and is completely professional at all times. I have no reservations about recommending her to friends and colleagues.
June 2, 2017S HabibDeborah is the best on the Island, she has a very kind heart and very knowledgeable, she will help you to her best. She goes out of her way to be kind and helpful. Her assist is very accommodating as well.
January 9, 2019Amanda CarlDeborah has provided me with professional, knowledgeable and friendly service for my legal needs. She and her staff are very helpful and prompt with their replies to phone calls & emails. I highly recommend Deborah Todd Law.
August 24, 2017
Ready to Move Forward? Speak with a Trusted Collaborative Family Lawyer in Victoria
If you’re facing separation or divorce and want to prioritize respect, privacy, and family harmony, Collaborative Family Law may be the best option. I’d be happy to walk you through your options in a private consultation and help you decide whether this approach is right for your situation.